See everything you're carrying in one shared picture, then start handing it over. Use the Fair Play cards, or make your own.
Make your load visibleRight now it all lives in one head. That's how things get dropped, and how resentment quietly builds.
It doesn't have to.
Use the Fair Play deck or add your own, and tap who holds each card. Two minutes, no login.
A picture of who is holding what, and who has the most on. Yours to keep or to send.
Send the picture to your partner, or save the board to a free account. Connect Hermo and it starts filing what it finds in your email onto the right card.
There are plenty of quizzes that score your mental load. The score is the easy part. Doing something about it is the point.
It takes three minutes, and you can do it before you've finished your coffee.
Make your load visible