Not another quiz

Stop scorekeeping the mental load. Share it instead.

See everything you're carrying in one shared picture, then start handing it over. Use the Fair Play cards, or make your own.

Make your load visible
Free ยท 3 minutes ยท no signup to start
Share June ยท who holds what
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Maya a lot on
Groceries Bedtime Birthdays
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Tom steady
Cooking Garbage Clubs
Your side's stacked this month. Want to pass something over?

Right now it all lives in one head. That's how things get dropped, and how resentment quietly builds.

It doesn't have to.

How it works

Three steps to put it down

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1. Sort

Use the Fair Play deck or add your own, and tap who holds each card. Two minutes, no login.

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2. See

The invisible load, made visible. Who's carrying what, and where it's lopsided this month.

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3. Share

Hand cards over with the full context. Connect Hermo and it keeps the whole thing running for you.

A quiz measures. Sharing moves it.

There are plenty of quizzes that score your mental load. The score is the easy part. Doing something about it is the point.

A mental-load quiz
  • โ—‹ Asks you 15 questions
  • โ—‹ Hands you a number ("you do 74%")
  • โ—‹ Feels true, and a bit annoying
  • โ—‹ Then nothing changes
Share
  • โ— Turns the load into cards you can see
  • โ— Shows who's carrying too much, this month
  • โ— Lets you hand a card over, with the context
  • โ— Hermo keeps it running from your inbox & WhatsApp

Make your invisible load visible.

It takes three minutes, and you can do it before you've finished your coffee.

Make your load visible
Free ยท no signup to start ยท stays on your device until you choose to save